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Modal Operators

In the Meta Model we have already leant that there are Modal Operators of Necessity and Possibility. Here in the Milton Model we only talk about Modal Operators.

The term “Modal operators” might sound weird. This refers to your mode of operating. They are words like must, should, can’t, have to, mustn’t, can, will and indicate possibility or necessity. There is a big difference between doing something because you feel you have to and because you want to.

Some examples of Modal Operators

Necessity: Words like “should”, “must”, and “have to” are modal operators of necessity. For example, “You should know this by now” or “You must do this right from now on”.

Possibility: Words like “can” and “cannot” are modal operators of possibility.

And of course an Exercise with Modal Operators

Complete the following sentences using the correct modal of necessity:

  • “If Richard wants to become a professional musician, he ______________ every day”
  • “According to the law, drivers ______________ at stop signs”
  • “When a police officer asks to see your driver’s license, you ______________ to him/her”


See if you can detect the Modal Operators of Necessity:

    • Many limitations are based on belief and beliefs can be changed.
    • Limiting beliefs can be identified with the words “cannot” or “impossible”.

 

Have fun reading our articles about Limits of the Speaker’s Model the Inverse of the Meta Model and the NLP Milton Model and the exercises we provide you here online.

Last but not Least

Remember, to increase your efficiency as a NLP Practitioner, know your positive intention for the message you want to convey, build rapport and pay attention on what and how you use language. Leave people and business in a better place that where you found them, every day!

Mind Tools provides NLP Practitioner and NLP Master Practitioner Trainings and Certifications. We educate you according to the renowned, latest and highest standards set by the Society of NLP. We will train you thoroughly in all the corners of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and some extras we learned from Dr. Richard Bandler directly.

About the author

Niels Ammerlaan

Licensed Master Trainer of NLP (Society of NLP) · Managing Partner, Mind Tools

Niels has trained and coached leaders, teams and individuals in Thailand and Europe for more than 30 years. He teaches the Licensed NLP Practitioner and Master Practitioner courses in Bangkok.

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